Zen Hospice Project

Image of misery by Kathe Kollwotz for story on Buddhist death ritual

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Washing My Boy’s Body

When a hospice counselor is called to the bedside of a child who has just died, he leads the parents through a Buddhist ritual for cleaning the body. In the process, he guides them through the fires of grief, which burn away everything but love.

By Frank Ostaseski
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