Your Partner Is Not Your Project
Why you can’t control how others practice—especially your loved ones
nico hase
nico hase lived in a monastery for six years before earning a PhD in counseling psychology and becoming an insight meditation teacher full-time. He serves as guiding teacher of the online dharma community Refuge of Belonging, teaches online and in-person retreats, and speaks with students in one-on-one sessions. He and his beloved life partner, devon, are the authors of How Not to Be a Hot Mess and This Messy, Gorgeous Love: A Buddhist Guide to Lasting Partnership (2026). Find out more at www.devonandnicohase.com
The Shared Body
What we learn together—and cannot learn alone
Closer Apart
What letting go can teach you about love
The Buddhist Case for Imperfect Love
Why your most annoying relationship habits might be your greatest teachers
How Not to Be a Jerk (Plus, a Kindness Meditation)
Sometimes we act less skillfully than we’d like. Sometimes, we act like a jerk.
Meditating on Money
Noticing what we think (and feel) about money can help us understand our relationship to it.
Hungry Ghosting, or the Hell Realm of the Dating World
A Buddhist couple discusses what the dharma has to say about dating today, and why it’s (usually) not OK to ghost people.
This Changes Nothing: A Dharmic Response to the Election of Donald Trump
One practitioner talks about how to take refuge in Trump's America.
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